I've been thinking about New Year's Resolutions since January 1st. I didn't even stop long enough to think about it before then. I've been going over about 50 questions (
Don Whitney/
Simple Mom) the past few days trying to examine where I've been and where I should be going. After praying, I think I have some direction for how I want to focus my time in 2009.
I will stop and say that I usually hate to think about new year's resolutions because the only word that comes immediately to my mind is failure. If I don't do something I've resolved to do once, then I feel that all is lost and give up (I am a perfectionist at heart). In the past, the only resolution I continue on a yearly basis is to floss my teeth! Easy enough (although I still don't do it every night). Instead, the past two years I have decided to think about ways I can grow in grace. If I could already do everything perfectly then I would not need resolutions in the first place. The fact that I need them already suggests that I don't do what is always good and through God's grace (apart from Him I can do nothing- John 15:5) He can transform my life as I submit myself to Him and to allow Him to do so.
So, I have four areas where I'd like to grow. I'll share most (but not all) since some are to be kept between me and the Lord or shared only with Michael.
Personal:
*Be intentional with 5-6 women in the Atlanta area and build relationships with them.
* Combat selfishness in four specific areas of my life.
* Read 10 books fully (I usually read 10 at a time and use them more as reference than read from cover to cover). I haven't picked all 10 yet but will list them when I decide.
Hannah:
*Write in her journal. I've started a journal where I write little things that I think are special throughout the day or funny things that she does. I've already forgotten so much and I don't want to forget any of it! I want her to be able to read about our time together when she is older and know that I treasure spending so much of my time with her.
*TALK to her about and read more Scripture to her.
*Join more play groups even while not having a second car.
*Encourage her strengths: compassion and nurturing with role-play, exploring with outside trips and play groups, and independent play with interesting Montessori activities.
*Continue to persevere with her weaknesses: whining-read Plowman and gain some new ideas, telling me no with discipline even when I am tired, and not going to bed with continuing to be firm.
Hub's:
*Study him and think of ways I can specifically care for him.
*Have some more dates!
*Encourage him in growing in the grace and knowledge of the Lord
Work:
*Eat more nourishing and farm/local foods
*Do that all while keeping our food budget the same or even cutting it
*Make all of our own breads and tortillas
*Soak our grains, nuts, and seeds
*Try a veggie and herb garden this summer
*Weed out what we eat as convenience foods and find substitutions to make my own instead. Switch to organic meat and dairy. Be aware of what I buy and feed to myself and my family!
*PLAN everything-days, year, what we eat, etc.-and simplify everything (be organized, my forte!)
*Have a schedule and stick to it...a.k.a. be disciplined!
*Simplify my emails